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Self-awareness stories: lighting our way to clarity, contentment and resilience in a complicated world.

Balancing Act: Part 1

9/4/2019

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“Step with great care and great tact, and remember that life’s a great balancing act.”
                                                                — Dr. Seuss
 
Good point! Let’s get our balancing act together!
 
Due to a variety of cognitive and physiological issues our ability to balance changes as we age. How we face that reality is important because improving our ability to balance is the best way to prevent falls, and live longer in an optimally healthy state. Some of the changes we face as we age are inevitable but with knowledge, prevention and rehabilitation we can regain some level of physical balance and decrease the risk of falling and injury.
 
The dictionary definition of physical balance is: “an even distribution of weight enabling someone or something to remain upright and steady.”
 
There are two primary types of physical balance:
 
1. Static balance is the ability to maintain a position without moving, such as standing in a long line in the supermarket, reaching away from your body without falling or standing on one foot.
 
2. Moving balance allows you to maintain your balance while walking, climbing stairs, stepping up and down on a curb, exercising or performing daily activities and tasks.
 
Moving is like breathing for me and I’m really good at it. I move from the first moment my foot hits the floor in the morning to the last moment when that same foot completes my plop into bed at night. I have been known to stop in the middle of the day and ‘dance like nobody’s watching.’ Of course, I have my ‘slouch on the couch’ time (who doesn’t) but I don’t stay still for too long. I also notice that I move more from fall through spring. Summer heat saps my energy so I move less from June through August and when I do move, I move slowly.
 
If you find moving balance difficult, because of a physical condition, vision problem or fear of falling you may limit your activities, which in turn will limit your independence.

If you are challenged by moving balance here are two suggestions to try.
 
Heel-Toe Walking
Benefits: strengthens the leg and trunk muscles and improves coordination
1. Begin by standing straight on firm flooring (no carpets or rugs).
2. Hold onto a counter, table or wall if you need extra support.
3. Lift your toes and the balls of your feet off the ground and balance on your heels.
4. Walk several feet on your heels while keeping your body upright.
5. Return to your starting position by lifting your heels off the floor and walking the distance on your toes.
6. Repeat the entire exercise 2 more times.
7. Try to do this twice a day until your moving balance improves.
 
Jack-In-The-Box
Benefits: strengthens the leg and trunk muscles and improves coordination
1. Begin by standing straight on firm flooring (no carpets or rugs).
2. Hold onto a counter, table or wall if you need extra support.
3. Shoes can be on or off but keep your feet together and your torso straight.
4. Bend your knees and lift your heels off the floor as you straighten your legs and raise your arm (or arms if you are not holding onto a support) overhead.
5. Hold for 3 to 5 breaths.
6. Work up to 2 sets of 8 repetitions.
7. Try to do this 3 times a week until your moving balance improves.
 
On to static balance, which, for me, is another matter entirely. It’s been a lifelong challenge, in part, I suspect, from three structural misalignments in my pelvis, which is rotated and tilted with one side higher that the other. Sigh. If I find myself having to stand in one position for a long time, I have to shift from one foot to the other to keep my hips from stiffening and giving me the sensation that they are locking up. In terms of my yoga practice, balance poses have never been among my favorites and I actively avoided them.
 
However, once I learned the importance of good balance as a way of reducing the risk of falling and injury, I decided to work with my dislike of balance, realign my mindset and as Cher said to Nicolas Cage in Moonstruck, “Snap out of it!”
 
It’s been a few years but I can confidently say that with practice, and a consistent routine of pelvic alignment exercises that I learned from Lee Albert, founder of Integrative Positional Therapy (leealbert.com), I am much better at static balance. 
 
If you are challenged by static balancing here are two suggestions to try.
 
Standing Balance Exercise
I learned this from Ruth Bender, my very first yoga teacher. She’s no longer with us but you can still find her books and information online if you search for: ruthbenderyoga
 
Benefits: strengthens the muscles in the feet and legs
1. Stand behind your chair and hold on with both hands.
2. Stand on your right foot, bend your left knee and raise your left foot to the back.
3. Hold this position to the count of five.
4. Stand on your left foot, bend your right knee and raise your right foot to the back.
5. Hold this position to the count of five.
6. Increase the holding time every day for a few seconds to reach the recommended time of 30 seconds.
7. After a few weeks of practice try to do it with your hands off the chair but keep your hands close ‘just in case.’
 
Note: For more of a challenge, you can gradually work up to one to two minutes, practice with your eyes closed, and/or practice on more uneven surfaces such as a carpet, grass or sand.
 
Seated Boat Pose
Benefits: strengthen the core, which is closely related to the ability to balance
1. Sit about halfway forward in your chair with your feet on the floor.
2. With your arms out to the side at shoulder height, exhale, contract your abdominal muscles, keep your left knee bent and raise the left foot off the floor. Hold for three breaths. You may choose to lean backward and let the chair support your back.   
3. On an inhalation lower the left foot.
4. Repeat this sequence on the right side.
5. Repeat steps 1 through 4 a few times or on an exhalation, lean back, contract your abdominal muscles, raise both feet, and hold for three breaths.
6. Slowly increase the holding time to five breaths or more if you are comfortable.
 
In my chair classes (ages 60 – 80+) most of the students accomplish this by slowly building up over time.
 
Good luck working on your physical balance!

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Balancing Act: Part 2

9/4/2019

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PictureDestined For The Stars by Ricky Bernstein
As the following quote points out, finding balance in our lives can be complicated: 
"Balance in life like in the body is not a given, we need to work for it.” 
          —  Unknown
 
The dictionary definition of balance is: “a condition in which different elements are equal or in the correct proportions.”
 
Imbalance in our lives comes from a variety of power sucking sources. Here is a partial list:
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  • Inactivity
  • Trauma (acute, chronic or complex)
  • Health issues
  • Money
  • Work
  • Relationship worries
  • Addictions
  • Water and air quality
  • Being seen and treated as other (race, poverty, politics, class, gender identity etc.)
  • Being ignored, disrespected, or lied to
I’ll bet you can add a few more of your own power sucking sources to this list!
 
The bad news is that we often don’t have control over the situations that throw us off balance. The good news is that we can learn to manage our responses to them.
 
The late Wayne Dyer, an American self-help author and motivational speaker, said:
 
"Getting in balance is not so much about adopting new strategies to change your behaviors, as it is about realigning yourself in all of your thoughts so as to create a balance between what you desire and how you conduct your life on a daily basis."
 
Easier said than done! How you manage it, when you manage it and how you respond to the reactions of others when you do make changes can be challenging. The process and the outcomes will be different for everyone. There are no quick fixes. It’s a marathon not a sprint and what’s needed to get started are healthy doses of resilience, self-awareness, and self-care.
 
What to do? My suggestion is that we first take stock of what’s going on in our lives through all of our five layers (see my article: The Five Layers of Self Awareness).
 
Here are some questions to ask yourself. They’ll help you get a handle on what’s in balance, what’s out of balance and what changes you may need to make as a result of knowing your answers.
 
Layer One: Physical/Environment
  • Can you sense any imbalances in your body such as constipation, headaches, digestive difficulties, back pain, a chronic health condition etc?
  • How about your home? Is it neat, clean and organized or cluttered, messy and overstuffed?
  • Can you identify any power sucking sources from the above list or from your own experience that might be a factor in any imbalances you identify in this layer?
  • Write down what you find.
My experience: When I’m feeling imbalanced and stressed, my upper lip curls, and my hips and low back stiffen. I can experience digestive issues, neck and upper back pain. I usually respond by balancing my checkbook and organizing closets and cabinets because it gives me the illusion of control (LOL!).
 
Layer Two: Breath/Energy
  • Do you breath mostly in your upper chest or by deeply filling your whole lungs?
  • Is your energy stable throughout the day or do you have ups and downs? When are the ups? When are the downs?
  • Can you identify any power sucking sources from the above list or from your own experience that might be a factor in any imbalances you identify in your breath or energy levels?
  • Write down what you find.
My experience: I can feel stress build if I go too many days without exercising. My energy levels drop, and it becomes harder to get started in the morning. Once I ‘catch’ that I’m stuck in an inactivity cycle (and that may take a few days), I start back to regular exercise by taking a 10 minute walk outside in nature or by watching comedy shows — laughing releases stress and increases my energy.
 
Layer Three: Mind; Thoughts and Emotions
  • Is your mental state steady and balanced or do you get caught in troubling thoughts and intense unproductive emotions? Do you recognize any persistent thought patterns or emotions?
  • Are there one or more areas in your life where you are stressed, overwhelmed, frustrated?
  • Can you identify any power sucking sources from the above list or from your own experience that might be a factor in any imbalances you identify in your mental stress or distress?
  • Write down what you become aware of. 
My experience: Most of my mental stress comes from relationship issues whether from friends, family or professional colleagues. I can feel my brain implode with anxiety and fear or explode with anger or shock depending on the situation. This usually stems from situations where I feel blocked, ignored, lied to, or disrespected. For me, both movement and meditation help. Also, I’ll balance my checkbook and organize closets and cabinets. The illusion of control always helps. (LOL! again).
 
Layer Four: Intuitive Wisdom
  • How well can you assess with honesty and clarity the status of your first three layers?
  • Can you identify any power sucking sources from the above list or from your own experience that might be a factor in any imbalances you identify in your mental stress or distress?
  • How do you react or respond to any stressors you identify?
  • Write down what you become aware of – be totally honest.
My experience: I’ve spent years working on this aspect of self-awareness and at this point I’m able (most of the time) to catch an unhelpful reaction ‘in the moment,’ process it an find an appropriate way to respond without drama and confrontation. That usually comes down to one of three choices:
 
  • Change the situation
  • Shift unhelpful emotional reactions into a calm clear response.
  • Leave
I have done all three!
 
Layer Five: Bliss
  • Are you able to find ways to release or accept any imbalances you find?
  • Do you have a way or ways to find clarity and contentment even in the middle of work/life imbalance?
  • Can you practice acceptance?  
  • What is your level of joy in life?  
  • Do you spend time being silent or in nature?  
  • Do you practice self-care?
  • How resilient or stress hardy are you?
  • Write down what you become aware of.
Once you know where your imbalances are, the next step is finding ways to relax and take care of yourself, while you consider the best way to address those imbalances (see my post: Self-Care 101).
 
My experience: I have two proven ways to relax. I move and I write. Moving relaxes, releases and soothes physical imbalances. Writing helps me gain clarity about what I’m going through and builds the internal resilience needed to respond to imbalanced situations with a clear head.
 
When things get tough, remember this:
 
“It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.”  
— Lena Horne

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    BETH GIBBS started her yoga practice in 1968, four months after her son was born and she’s been practicing ever since. She currently teaches all levels therapeutic yoga classes for adults, and specialty classes for seniors in the Hartford, Connecticut area. Beth is a certified yoga therapist through the International Association of Yoga Therapists and is guest faculty at the Kripalu School of Integrative Yoga Therapy. She writes for the blogs, Yoga for Healthy Aging, and Accessible Yoga. Her master’s degree from Lesley University in Cambridge, MA is in Yoga Therapy and Mind/Body Health. 

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